Spiritual people are often some of the kindest, most well-intentioned individuals you will ever meet. They speak in tones of compassion, use words like surrender and alignment, and genuinely want to live from love. But in many spiritual spaces, something subtle and deeply damaging is happening beneath the surface: emotional immaturity is hiding behind spiritual language.

They may say “I’ve let it go,” when in fact they have shut down emotionally. They may say “I’m holding space,” but avoid dire...

Many spiritually gifted people find themselves asking: "If I can channel, sense energy, and support others, why do I still feel emotionally stuck?"

This is not a flaw in your gift. It is a sign of a missing foundation: Emotional Integration

The Illusion of Spiritual Advancement

In spiritual circle, it's easy to believe that intuition equals growth. That accessing past life memories, seeing auras, or downloading messages must mean you have "done the work". 

But the thing is: Spiritual ability...

In Part 1, we explored the first ten subtle ways spiritual bypassing can show up in everyday life - often disguised as wisdom, strength, or even inner peace. But real emotional mastery isn’t about avoiding pain. It’s about being fully present with it, even when it’s uncomfortable.

Here are ten more ways you might be bypassing your emotional truth without realising it:

11. Judging others for being ‘low vibe’ instead of seeing your own projections

It’s easy to dismiss someone as negative, toxic...

Spiritual bypassing is often invisible on the surface. It disguises itself as maturity, grace, or wisdom. But underneath, it's often just avoidance dressed in spiritual language.

Many of us fall into it without realising. And while it might feel like protection, over time it erodes our emotional wellness and disconnects us from the real work of healing.

Here are the first ten subtle ways you might be spiritually bypassing in your day-to-day life:

1. Using “Everything happens for a reason” to ...

Just Let It Go’ Is Lip Service—Here’s the Truth About Real Healing

I’ve been on the spiritual growth and personal development path for over 25 years. Early on, I was convinced that “mind over matter” and positive thinking would lead me to a more enlightened state. Spoiler alert: they didn’t quite work out that way.

Sure, positive affirmations gave me a temporary lift, but they never touched the deeper traumas and unsettled feelings that kept bubbling up, no matter how many times I repeated, “...

In our fast-paced, material-driven society, it's easy to become entangled in the superficial and transient aspects of life. However, for those who seek deeper meaning, it's crucial to recognise that everything happening here on Earth is part of a grander scheme. The lessons we encounter are not merely for our earthly existence but are designed to guide our soul's evolution. This journey requires us to dig deep within ourselves, facing challenges that test our spirit and fortitude. It is not for ...

In our quest for spiritual growth and enlightenment, we often seek guidance from spiritual leaders, teachers, and gurus (this includes pastors, priests, nuns, monks, etc). We hold them in high regard, believing they possess profound wisdom to navigate life's complexities. Yet, amidst our admiration, it is crucial to acknowledge the importance of understanding the darkness within ourselves. By exploring our motivations and emotional patterns, we can perceive the shadows that also exist in our spi...

In our interconnected world, where information is at our fingertips, it's crucial to protect ourselves from the perils of groupthink. This phenomenon can have a profound impact on various aspects of our lives, including our spiritual communities. In this article, we'll explore the risks associated with group thinking and discover practical strategies to foster independent thinking and embrace diverse perspectives, empowering ourselves to break free from the chains of conformity.

The Power of In...

Many spiritual seekers often use spiritual excuses to avoid taking action towards their goals or facing their shadow selves. These excuses can be so convincing that they prevent us from realizing our true potential and living the life we desire.

We will examine some common spiritual excuses and the underlying realities behind them so that we can recognize and confront our shadow selves and move towards a more fulfilling life. So, let's dive in and explore.

We may know that there is certain act...

How to Face Your Trauma Responses with Love and Courage

Most people are not aware of the trauma that they are carrying within, and more often than not, people brush them off as something they experienced, and they think it is normal. While it is common, it does not mean that it is healthy.

Trauma can be a heavy burden that we carry with us, often long after the actual event has passed. It can affect us in ways that we may not even be aware of, hindering our spiritual progress and preventing us...