You have probably seen those quotes that say things like, “The deeper you heal, the more you cannot stand bad energy.” It sounds deep, but it is not quite true.

Yes, when you first start healing, you do become more sensitive. You start noticing things that you used to ignore. Maybe you find loud or chaotic spaces uncomfortable. Maybe small talk feels harder to sit through. Or you walk away from a conversation and realise you feel completely drained. That is your body waking up and showing you w...

When most people think about emotions, they imagine feelings happening only in the mind. We say, “I feel stressed,” or “I’m anxious,” as if these experiences sit entirely in our thoughts. But emotions do not just live in the mind. They live in the body. They leave marks, signals, and sometimes even symptoms in the very organs and tissues that we depend on every single day.

This does not mean every illness is “just emotional,” and it does not replace medical advice. What it means is that your bo...

When life feels uncomfortable, most of us have our go-to ways of avoiding discomfort. We scroll. We snack. We bury ourselves in work. We pour a drink.

It helps for a moment but not for long.

Because avoiding discomfort doesn’t make it disappear. It waits. And the longer we push it aside, the heavier it becomes.

THE REAL COST OF AVOIDING DISCOMFORT

Think of the times you numbed out after a rough day. Maybe you stayed up scrolling, kept yourself endlessly busy, or reached for food or drink jus...

Spiritual people are often some of the kindest, most well-intentioned individuals you will ever meet. They speak in tones of compassion, use words like surrender and alignment, and genuinely want to live from love. But in many spiritual spaces, something subtle and deeply damaging is happening beneath the surface: emotional immaturity is hiding behind spiritual language.

They may say “I’ve let it go,” when in fact they have shut down emotionally. They may say “I’m holding space,” but avoid dire...

There is a specific kind of heartbreak that comes not from losing love, but from repeatedly chasing it especially from someone who cannot or will not meet you emotionally. You may find yourself explaining your needs over and over, justifying their behaviour, tolerating hurt, and holding onto the hope that maybe this time, they will understand, change, or choose you fully.

What makes this pattern even more painful is that it can feel like love. It can feel like deep loyalty, emotional investment...

Why Self-Awareness Alone Will Not Heal You—and What Real Integration Looks Like
A companion to Myth vs. Fact: Emotional Intelligence and Spiritual Intelligence

You do not need more insight. You already have it. You know the language. You can trace your wounds to childhood, describe your attachment style, name your copying mechanisms, and quote every second sentence from the latest trauma book. 

But there is a quiet tension beneath all that knowing, a sense that, somehow something still has not...

Ever feel like you're holding it together so well that no one suspects anything's wrong? Like you're calm, composed, even unbothered—but only on the outside? You’re the person people admire for staying grounded during chaos. But here’s the truth:

Your calm might not be calm at all. It might be freeze.

The Calm That Wasn’t Chosen

The freeze response is a lesser-discussed trauma survival state. While most people are familiar with fight or flight, freeze is what happens when the body registers t...

In Part 1, we explored the first ten subtle ways spiritual bypassing can show up in everyday life - often disguised as wisdom, strength, or even inner peace. But real emotional mastery isn’t about avoiding pain. It’s about being fully present with it, even when it’s uncomfortable.

Here are ten more ways you might be bypassing your emotional truth without realising it:

11. Judging others for being ‘low vibe’ instead of seeing your own projections

It’s easy to dismiss someone as negative, toxic...

Spiritual bypassing is often invisible on the surface. It disguises itself as maturity, grace, or wisdom. But underneath, it's often just avoidance dressed in spiritual language.

Many of us fall into it without realising. And while it might feel like protection, over time it erodes our emotional wellness and disconnects us from the real work of healing.

Here are the first ten subtle ways you might be spiritually bypassing in your day-to-day life:

1. Using “Everything happens for a reason” to ...

For years, the internet has been flooded with quick-fix manifestation techniques—affirmations, vision boards, scripting under the full moon. And yet, people still wonder: Why isn’t it working for me? The truth is, what you haven’t healed is blocking your manifestations—and 2025 is the year to stop bypassing the deep work.

Unhealed Trauma is Holding You Back

One of the biggest misconceptions about manifestation is that you can “think” your way into a new reality while ignoring the emotional bag...