I notice this about people A LOT: people do things, say things, don't say certain things, or don't do certain things, TO BE NICE.
While I understand that there is always a time and place to say things or do things BUT to betray self to appear nice to others and to be liked is one of the most TOXIC things to do to SELF.
It is ok not to be nice. We are not obligated in any way to be nice just because:
I received a really good question from my IG story and it says: Is it hard to be in a relationship as a spiritual teacher and energy healer?
So I would like to answer this question here, but tweak it so it is relatable to everyone, and not just for spiritual teachers or healers.
Well to begin, relationships are challenging in themselves. Especially romantic long term relationships. It is one of the hardest schools to be in when you're on the spiritual path, wanting to grow spiritually....