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The Trauma of Chasing Love: When Your Heart Doesn’t Know It’s in Danger

There is a specific kind of heartbreak that comes not from losing love, but from repeatedly chasing it especially from someone who cannot or will not meet you emotionally. You may find yourself explaining your needs over and over, justifying their behaviour, tolerating hurt, and holding onto the hope that maybe this time, they will understand, change, or choose you fully.

What makes this pattern even more painful is that it can feel like love. It can feel like deep loyalty, emotional investment...

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You’re an Adult on the Outside But Inside, You’re Still Struggling to Keep It Together

How Inner Parenting Updates Your Emotional Maturity
On the outside, you may seem like you have it all together. You are responsible, high-functioning, and capable. But on the inside, you may find yourself struggling to regulate emotions, overreacting in private, or silently fearing that one wrong moment could expose how fragile it really feels. This inner dissonance is more common than you think and often points to an emotional map that never got the chance to grow with you.

You can run a busine...

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Nurturing Emotional Health: Understanding Subtle Forms of Emotional Abuse

Emotional abuse is often a silent predator, lurking behind actions and words that may seem benign on the surface but have deep, damaging effects on our well-being. Emotional abuse is a sneaky one; it doesn't leave any visible marks, making it hard to spot and address. But don't worry, by understanding these subtle forms of emotional manipulation, we can take better care of our mental health and emotional growth. In this article, we will discuss different types of emotional abuse and how self-par...

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Understanding the Difference Between Evolved and Un-evolved Masculine and Feminine Energies

In our journey towards inner harmony, the dance between our inner masculine and feminine energies plays a pivotal role. Balancing these energies is not just about gender; it's about the qualities and strengths they represent within us. Through the exploration of these dynamic forces, we uncover the impact of both their wounded and evolved states on our lives. This journey from the shadows of manipulation, avoidance, and aggression towards the light of nurturing, intuition, safety, and security i...

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Navigating Emotional Tides: Understanding Trauma's Deep Impact

The journey toward healing from trauma is both profound and complex, demanding a nuanced understanding of its deep impact on our emotional worlds. Bessel Van der Kolk's poignant observations shed light on a common struggle: traumatized individuals may deeply fear the intensity of their emotions due to the potential loss of control they entail. Recognizing and bravely facing this fear is a critical step on the path to recovery.

The Nature of Trauma
Trauma is an insidious presence, often invisible...

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