Private Coaching โ€” Shamala Tan
Private Coaching

When guilt or fear hijacks your voice, private coaching clears the loop

One-to-one sessions to heal toxic-relationship fallout, rebuild boundaries, and trust your intuition again.

I don't fix you; I hold the mirror until you see your own truth.

Your nervous system is running old code

You have read the books. You have tried the meditations. Yet every time you need to speak up or set a boundary, you either shrink back or feel overwhelmed by guilt and doubt.

That is not a character flaw. It is your nervous system running old programming.

In private coaching, we cut through those loops using somatic tracking, boundary scripting, and intuitive insight so your body and gut reclaim authority in real life.

This lands hard for a reason

  • You have stepped away from a toxic or narcissistic dynamic, but the tension still lives in your body.
  • Guilt or fear hijacks you the moment you try to say no.
  • You have poured years into self-development but still second-guess your instincts.
  • You want one-to-one laser focus, not another generic group course.

What shifts when the loop breaks

Speak up with calm instead of shutting down.

Hold boundaries once, no justifications needed.

Feel your body's safety signals, not random alarms.

Make decisions from choice, not fear.

Maintain steady energy, no more emotional crashes.

Know exactly when to pause and refill so you never run empty.

Transform overwhelm into clarity by budgeting your feelings like currency.

Leave every session with a clear, actionable next step.

Private Coaching ยท 60 Minutes ยท via Zoom

One focused session. We go straight to the pattern, the body response, and the one shift that moves the needle. You will leave with a personalised roadmap โ€” regardless of whether you come back.

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You will always leave with something concrete to use immediately.

Shamala is an effective listener: gifted at pinpointing the core of an enquiry and delving deeper to identify challenges and ideas to address them.
Suzie Kim
I met her at a crucial and challenging time of my life and she has been a blessing and a God send. She has made me the person that I am. I cannot say enough how grateful I am to have her as a guiding light for 25 years now.
Eileen J โ€” Australia

How this differs from the Blueprint

The Emotional Empowerment Blueprint is a rich, twelve-module group pathway with layered resources and community structure.

Private coaching is one-to-one, laser-targeted, and paced entirely at your speed. Many clients combine both: private sessions for surgical depth, Blueprint for ongoing structure and peer support.

  • Is this therapy?

    No. Shamala is a therapeutic coach, not a licensed psychotherapist. The focus is on present-moment skills and future outcomes. Additional professional support will be recommended if your needs fall outside this scope.

  • Can a single session actually change anything?

    One session will not change everything. But you will leave with one clear, actionable step you can use immediately to start shifting the pattern.

  • Cancellation & Rescheduling

    Rescheduling is free if requested more than 24 hours before your session. Within 24 hours, a SGD 100 fee applies. Cancellations made more than 48 hours before your session receive a full refund. Within 48 hours, no refund is issued. No-shows without prior notice are non-refundable. One reschedule is permitted per booking โ€” a second request requires a new booking.